We come in all shapes, sizes, ethnicities, ideas, visions and purpose. I love being a woman; the way God created us and giving us the ability to do extraordinary things with our bodies. We as the other sex have come a long way, from being in the back to moving our way to the front and onward. You see women in higher positions, making executive decisions and empowering the younger generation to live and do what they are destine to do in this world.

I enjoy this time of year because it is all about embracing us as women. This is the time where people all over the world take a moment and celebrate. Acknowledging what we have been through and giving us credit and rightfully so. I thought growing up becoming a woman was going to be the greatest thing ever, being on my own and calling the shots. Little did I know life came with challenges and will continue to do so as life goes on. However, its all about embracing and going through those challenges that makes you a better person. We go through life lessons and it teaches us about ourselves. It provides another layer of skin and gives us another level of experience we can build off of.

For the mothers, wife’s, sisters, best friends, aunties, step-moms, mother-in-laws, single women etc. just know you are loved. This month is for us and for whatever you have going on in your life know that it’s temporary and not to rush through it but take it all in.

To the younger generation understand this: your future awaits and be sure to take some time to invest in yourself, your dreams, and your ambition because you too will be providing direction to a younger generation.

How We Celebrate Ourselves

Make Yourself A Priority: no matter what that day or time looks like be sure to put yourself first at some point. Work will always be there, friends will understand, and family members will just have to be patient. Whatever that thing is that you like to do, spend time doing it, whether its dancing, listening to music, taking a bath, spending time in nature, reading a book etc. DO IT. You owe that to yourself.
Learn To Say Mo: you don’t own anyone a yes all the time, this includes our children. If you don’t have the capacity or the strength to do something don't commit to it. The first time might be hard especially if you are use to saying yes to someone, but understand that this is something you can do!
Treat Yourself: we can be so consumed with obligations and daily routines that we forget to treat ourselves. This could mean buying that outfit or item you have been eying for some time. Or calling up a friend and going out to dinner or simply taking yourself out and enjoying your own company.

There will be days where we want to relax and not do anything and that’s fine. Do not get so consumed in chasing money that you lose sight on your health. You are important in this world and we have to remind ourselves that we are. Our magazine have many articles with tips and ways you can celebrate yourself, there are articles about stress management, how to talk about issues, and even wellness activities you can engage in. Be sure to click here and check it out. So remember to celebrate yourself this month and every month. I look forward to your growth and let me in on any suggestions that you do when it comes to putting yourself first. I would love to hear it!